I’m sitting and looking at the doctor.
‘What’? I hear the words coming out from my mouth repeatedly. I can’t say anything else. I think I stammer and say something like ‘I…..er…’
Eloquence is not my strength.
‘You didn’t know?’, my smart doctor asks. Did I look like someone who was in the know?
She looks puzzled. “Oh, you noticed no change in your body”?
Ok look woman, I know that I perpetually look about two months pregnant. But you can’t body shame me ah, basket.
She tells me to lie on the bed. My head is still spinning with the info I have received. The doctor then proceeds to press me all over my stomach. “Hmmm hmmm,” she keeps muttering to herself. Now she looks unsure. I can’t do with unsure. I need a confirmation. I start to wonder if my urine sample was switched accidentally. I mean, accidents happen, right?
I can’t remember what the doctor says after this. She mentions folic acid. She mentions admin like which hosp I wd like referral to. I agree to a follow up at KK hosp. She tells me upfront that due to covid, I may only get an appt a month or two later.
She writes me a prescription and passes it to me. I walk out quietly with it. I stand in the middle of the polyclinic and call Raj repeatedly. Of all days, this Rajkumar does not pick up my panicky repeated calls. I’m going a bit mental. I need to call him. I need to say it out to make it feel more real. I don’t want to tell anyone else but him.
Not being able to reach him, I walk over to the pharmacy. My number is called. The pharmacist then says, “The doctor wd like to see you again”
Oh shit. There it is.
It was all a big mix up, wasn’t it? Mine was just gastric all along and there’s another visibly pregnant woman quizzically staring at her doctor who claims she is not pregnant. Correct? This is how wild my thoughts can go in seconds
I drag my feet back to the doctor. She welcomes me in and says, “Can you lie down again? I want to feel your womb”.
Hmm, ok?
No choice right?
She fiddled around my tummy. Squeezing and poking and prodding. “I can’t really feel it. Maybe it’s at the beginning stage”.
Erm ok. Thanks. So, am I pregnant or not? I need a freaking confirmation. Doctor fantastic didn’t seem too convinced.
I walked out of the clinic. At the Mr Teh Tarik shop right opp the clinic, I began to Google my previous gynae’s name. This was the gynae who brought me through IVF and my first pregnancy at KK hosp. Tan Heng Hao.
He had just gone private. At my last visit with him, he had excitedly talked about his new private clinic at Novena. I found the name of the clinic. I called and made an appt. The nurse said I cd come in the very next day. Ok. Good. I needed a scan. I need to see for myself if there was really a baby in me.
I went home. I rarely had the hse to myself. Normally I wd have been able to nap. Now I couldn’t. I paced the hall. I drowned out my spinning head’s many thoughts with TV.
Finally Raj called me back. I blurted out what happened.
He laughed. What the shit (By the way, non of these pregnancy revelations had been up to my expectations. Stupid movies made me think it would be a lot more romantic. Think clasped hands, passionate kisses to tummy, tears in eyes, etc. Basket. I’ll sue these bloody movies)
“I knew it”. He said. “It’s either you are pregnant or something was very wrong with you. You may be seriously ill”. Thanks ah. King of anti- climatic. But I didn’t feel anything. I just needed to know for sure. I needed to get to Tan Heng Hao’s clinic. To know it for sure
The next day, Raj and I got to Tan Heng Hao’s new clinic. After what felt like eternity, we got in. Dr Tan looked at me and smiled. Stupid handsome bugger. “Hi Shanthini, how are you… Everything ok? The last I saw you, you were very stressed in school right? So how, how are you feeling “?
I realised what he was doing.
He thought I was here for a fresh cycle of fertility treatments. He was doing the whole intro talk. He was going to go into game plans soon. I had gone through years of this. So many doctors with their speeches. I knew the drill.
I didn’t know when to interrupt him, though. Raj did.” OKKK, so I think she’s pregnant “, he cut in
Here’s the fun part. Tan Heng Hao looks shocked.
He started to say something. And then he stopped. “Ok wait. Let me check you first. Can you get on the bed and we will do a scan”
I lay down and pulled up my top. The familiar cold squash of gel. The familar scanning device circling my abdomen.
“I see it. There’s a heartbeat”
Time stood still for a second. That’s all I needed to hear. That’s all I needed.
I blocked off everything else. Raj was talking to Tan Heng Hao. I smiled. I wanted to cry. I needed to process. I dunno how this happened. How could the first time have taken so long? How did this work out? Fours years back, after the failure of my first IVF, I had reentered the office of this very doctor at KK hosp as I didn’t understand why the IVF procedure had not worked. He cd’nt answer me. He told me sometimes it just does not. Tears had streamed down my face as I left, my Stomach feeling like it was in a knot, my chest hurting.
This time, again, he had no answer. I don’t know why. I’ve heard of the body being more fertile after giving birth once. I dunno how this really works. But I didn’t really bother about the details right now. The only detail i needed was that I was not just one person.
My little Rita was on the way